What's Happening:
Throwing objects usually happens when emotions overwhelm impulse control. The child may be frustrated, overstimulated, or seeking a physical release for big feelings.
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Option A: Gentle / Connection-Based Response
Use this when the child is emotionally flooded.
How to do it:
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Stay calm and move closer
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Remove nearby objects if needed
What to say:
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"You're really upset."
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"I'm here."
Why it works:
Connection helps the nervous system calm before teaching can happen.
Option B: Trauma-Informed / Nervous System Support
Use this when throwing escalates quickly.
How to do it:
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Reduce stimulation
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Use few words
What to say:
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"Pause."
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"You're safe."
Why it works:
Safety cues help stop fight-or-flight responses.
Option C: Calm Boundary + Skill-Building
Use this when throwing becomes unsafe or repeated.
How to do it:
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Set a clear limit
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Redirect to safe alternatives
What to say:
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"I won't let you throw things."
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"Let's find a safe way to get this out."
Why it works:
Boundaries protect safety while teaching regulation.
