What's Happening:
Leaving the house involves multiple transitions, sensory input, and loss of control. Resistance often reflects overwhelm, not defiance.
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Option A: Gentle / Connection-Based Response
Use this when resistance begins.
How to do it:
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Give advance notice
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Stay supportive
What to say:
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"We're leaving soon."
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"I'll help you."
Why it works:
Predictability reduces stress.
Option B: Trauma-Informed / Nervous System Support
Use this when leaving causes distress.
How to do it:
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Slow the process
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Offer grounding
What to say:
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"One step at a time."
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"You're safe."
Why it works:
Regulation supports cooperation.
Option C: Calm Boundary + Skill-Building
Use this when delays continue.
How to do it:
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State expectations clearly
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Follow through calmly
What to say:
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"It's time to go."
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"I'll help you move."
Why it works:
Consistency builds flexibility.
