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Attention & Impulsivity: Interrupting



What's Happening:

Interrupting often comes from impulse control challenges, excitement, or fear of being forgotten. The child is not trying to be rude - their brain is prioritizing speed over timing.
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Option A: Gentle / Connection-Based Response
Use this when the child is eager or enthusiastic.
How to do it:
Make eye contact
Acknowledge the attempt to communicate

What to say:
"I see you want to share."
"I'll listen when it's your turn."

Why it works: Acknowledgment reduces urgency and builds patience.

Option B: Trauma-Informed / Nervous System Support
Use this when the child interrupts repeatedly due to anxiety.
How to do it:
Provide reassurance
Offer a predictable turn

What to say:
"I won't forget you."
"Your turn is next."

Why it works: Predictability reduces anxious interruption.

Option C: Calm Boundary + Skill-Building
Use this when interrupting disrupts learning or conversation.
How to do it:
Set a clear rule
Follow through consistently

What to say:
"I'm speaking right now."
"Please wait your turn."

Why it works: Consistency teaches impulse control over time.
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Ignoring completely
Snapping or shaming
Saying "You're rude"

Teach the Skill

- Practice raising a hand
- Use visual reminders
- Praise waiting behavior


Learn how to teach the skills.



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This guide is for educational purposes only and is not intended to replace professional medical, psychological, or mental health care. Adapt strategies to meet individual needs.
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