What's Happening:
Passive resistance (stalling, "forgetting," minimal effort) often signals resentment, overwhelm, or fear of direct conflict. It's a quieter form of opposition.
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Option A: Gentle / Connection-Based Response
Use this when resistance is subtle.
How to do it:
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Name what you notice
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Stay neutral
What to say:
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"It seems hard to get started."
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"Something feels off."
Why it works:
Naming reduces avoidance.
Option B: Trauma-Informed / Nervous System Support
Use this when resistance is anxiety-based.
How to do it:
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Reduce pressure
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Offer support
What to say:
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"We can take this step by step."
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"I've got you."
Why it works:
Support lowers avoidance.
Option C: Calm Boundary + Skill-Building
Use this when resistance persists.
How to do it:
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Clarify expectations
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Follow through
What to say:
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"This still needs to be done."
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"Let's choose a plan."
Why it works:
Consistency teaches responsibility.
